Share Your Thoughts and Memories

"Although we know that after such a loss the acute state of mourning will subside, we also know we shall remain inconsolable and will never find a substitute.  No matter what may fill the gap, even if it be filled completely, it nevertheless remains something else.  And actually, this is how it should be.  It is the only way of perpetuating that love which we do not want to relinquish."  --Sigmund Freud in a letter to a man who lost his son.


If you would like to share your thoughts, memories, stories, or photos of Joann, Kristin, or Zachary, or wish to offer your condolences to Chris and the Rumsey and Piano families, please send an email to rjpiano at yahoo.com

We will post them to this site as soon as we can.

When I think of Joann, the word that most comes to mind is “sunny.” Even people who met Joann for the first time commented on this. My mother-in-law Cathy Olsson said that Joann made such an impression on her. She just sparkled.

Joann was one of the few people I’ve met who smiled with her whole face. It wasn’t just that her mouth curved upward or her eyes shined, although they did; her whole face brightened when she smiled, and she seemed to glow from within. This was even more so when she spoke about Chris. Joann told me about the first time she met him, jokingly telling Chris that maybe she wouldn’t remember him. I asked, “So…did you remember Chris when he called?” She said with quiet certainty, “Yes, of course.” Joann shined as she spoke of him; her deep, deep love for Chris so clearly in her face.
Joannn’s gentle goodness was her gift to those around her.

Mark and I met many members of the family on Joann and Chris’ side this weekend for the first time. We were deeply moved by the love, tenderness, humor and strength we experienced while being with you all. Your sense of community and togetherness is beyond precious. You will all be in our thoughts and hearts during this deeply painful time. Joann, Kristin, and Zachery, you are deeply loved and missed.

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